Tommy Lofgren, MA, LMHC, NCCMar 26, 20214 minCan I Rely Solely on Logic in My Relationship?To those we love dearly, we can utilize our relationship, and that safety and security specifically, to provide a model for how we reach...
Tommy Lofgren, MA, LMHC, NCCMar 22, 20214 minObstacles in Resolving The obstacles I speak to here are centered on feeling disconnected, disengaged, or disregarded by our partners. You might’ve felt at...
Tommy Lofgren, MA, LMHC, NCCMar 18, 20213 minAlone and LonelyIf we’re sure that we want to build that secure attachment with our loved one, and they’re dedicated to building that safety as well, we...
Tommy Lofgren, MA, LMHC, NCCMar 8, 20213 minLacking InitiativeWhile we must be “showing the ability” to act independently to meet our goals, our secure attachments want to see us succeed—they want to...