To those we love dearly, we can utilize our relationship, and that safety and security specifically, to provide a model for how we reach for comfort. This is an exact question I’ve asked in relationships in my life. It is a question I’ve searched on Google for, because I felt like something was wrong when I wasn’t able to share those emotions or deepest parts of myself with those in my life. I realize logic plays a key factor throughout our lives—as a student, I needed to abs